Bah, LGBT Humbug

I outed myself as bi without trying much the other day and got chastised for not having told this (gay) friend earlier.

I'm annoyed by this response, since my policy is pretty much, unless I'm asking you to sleep with me, my orientation isn't any of your business and continues to not be an important part of my identity. I recognize that I'm also annoyed because the exchange reminded me too much of my former boss verbally armtwisting me until I caved and told him. Which, as time passes, I get more angry about, not less.